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June 23, 2006

Life After Marriage

Filed under: Philosophy — CAPitalZ @ 2:08 pm

POSSIBILITIES

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IN LOVING
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-Love gives u the chance to experiment different girls/guys [as many as you want].
-Love gives you the power to break up anytime, regardless of how stupid reasons there are ["oh she is a whore" – not to mention he made her in the first place]
-Love is fun
-Love is happy [while u r in love]
-Love gives the self pride [ "hey I've a b/f, & u don't – look whose talking"]
-Love releases any of your tensions – a soothing experience.
& finally….
love gives you oppertunities to make love [sex, in case u didn't get it]

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MARRIED THE SAME PERSON YOU LOVED – GOOD
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-Heaven on earth! Razz Embarassed Laughing Very Happy

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LOVE BROKE UP & U GOT MARRIED TO A DIFFERENT PERSON
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-Torns your heart every moment
-Cry many times
-Can't go to the same places you both went [b/c it bring backs the memories]
-Can't really love another French kiss.. , b/c ur x-lovers French kiss is what you still remember
-Can't really have the same feelings when u r ****/when u f*uc*k, by ur new lover [b/c nothing like the first time]
-If your partner is sensitive to your x-life, then s/he will be devastated by knowing your x-life
-If s/he can't absorb your x-life, s/he will try to either punish you or will look for a sidekick [a 2nd partner, while having u] Or could end in divorce

-In the case s/he don't think bad of your x-life, then you will feel ashamed of what you did. U'll feel that u have not done the right things for your partner especially since s/he is sooooooooooo nice & takes care of you & understands you. This is the feeling of "thurooham" – U'll wanted to make urself suffer

-Your kidz will not listen to your advices, b/c they will tell u "Look whose talking" – just like how u told ur mother/father

-U'll be left out in ur own family [if one goes wrong… everything goes wrong]

-In case your x-lover is a cruel person, s/he will black mail you.
Scare you that s/he would tell how they f*ucke*d u to your new husband/wife.
Scare you that they would tell the story to your entire family.
To be not told, s/he might ask u to f*uc*k or give money him/her again! [& could u imagine of being caught right there?! – oh lord]

-The shame that you bring your partner.. will torment him/her whenever that happens.
-His/her friends/relatives will point out this fact whenever there is a fight . ["oh like… u r pure"]

& finally…
Memories tornments you for your entire lifetime, even when you have ur grandchildren – for the stupid decisions that you made when you are young

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MARRIED THE SAME PERSON YOU LOVED – BAD
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-Relatives may not intermingle or worst not talk at all
-Relatives would not help you in big [may b in small – remember friends won't help you all the time & for all situations – especially when its a big help]
-If you were born as a rich person, & your relatives do not get involved w/ both of you, then you might feel frustrated/angry & beat up ur partner – & when all your tries fail, u'll end up a very poor person [ no ur friends cannot help you in moneywise – b/c u were raised up rich & u expectations are high]
-There could be some "strange thoughts"
-"S/he wasn't the same person I loved"
-"You are different after marriage"
-You might started to get fedup of the same person that u are going out since u were young
-You might get attracted to a different person, simply for his/her different approach [ remember u never experienced different viewpoints]

& finally…
There could arise a thought … "may b I acted too soon"

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ARRANGE MARRIAGE – BAD
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-You don't like your partner or hate your partner
-You r not satisfied with your partners's sex drive Twisted Evil
-You don't like his/her family or hate them
-You start to have a sidekick [or u go back to your x-lover]
-May end up in divorce
-Yours and your partner's relatives & family will try as hard as they can to bring happiness into your family simply b/c of the arrange marriage.

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ARRANGE MARRIAGE – GOOD
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-Arranged Marriage is the financial decision.
-A. Marriage is not simply your parents chose.
-Your family inquires many ppl of the opposite party's family behaviours
_ money
_ good/bad
_ deceases
-Usually the surrounding ppl of the opposite party knows much about them. So its a better understanding. [there is a saying "If you want me tell about you, tell me who are your friends"]
-So the "bad behavioured" families are screened out.. its in the heritage. [just like how there is more chance of this person getting a family deceases, if his/her parents' had them]
-Ur parents look for the opposite guy/girl's height/ weight/ beauty
-A. Marriage is not only looking for the right partner 4 u.. but also the right person to be included in the entire family. [ there is more bond]
-Parents & relatives will help you all the time if anything goes wrong in your family. U'll have them for support in any situations
-U r happy & ur parents r happy & ur relatives are happy.. & some/all of your friends r happy
-A. Marriage is the amalgamation of many families.
Do you ppl know there are 14 different connenctions are checked in the marriage horoscope. How your wealth, children… & many more
-And one of them is your sex life. Your horoscope tells how long ur d*ic*k is or how deep your p*uss*y is. That specific connection looks for the right sizes to match. It shouldn't be too long or too short.. or too big. The horoscope looks for the match of sexual arousals. It won't match if the girl has a greater desire for sex & the guy has less desire for sex. The reason being.. is that this would lead her to have a sidekick…
-The horoscope can tell if this person capable of producing kids. if both partners lack it, then it wont match.
-You ppl think horoscope is just for the connection… IT CHECKS EVERYTHING…
[bear in mind that not all 14 connects were matched in order to marry – so u may lack some & have some]
-if you guys won't trust me.. read any "panchaangam" … that's where I learned all of them is there.. & how to see.

& finally…
Its a happy family/generation/community

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COMPARE THE BAD OF BOTHS.. & GOOD OF BOTHS..

iS IT WORTH TO MAKE MANY SAD & YOU ALSO END UP BEING SAD?
iS IT WORTH TO PUT YOUR ENTIRE LIFE IN MISERABLE?
OR
dO YOU WANT TO TAKE THE SLIGHTEST CHANCE & HOPE EVERYTHING GOES SMOOTH & YOU HAVE A "HEAVEN ON EARTH"?

"Make the decision wisely" – Remember its not only for you… its for your entire descendents

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CAPital

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